“Where on earth did I meet him/ her?”
“What was I looking at when I made him/ her friend?”
“Why do he/ she simply derive joy from getting me angry?”
We all have been in one of those kinds of scene where we
have to ponder on the qualifications that got us in a relationship with some
people in our lives but then I got to tell you that you need to stop asking
those questions and begin to see the reasons you made them your friends.
Seriously, I must say that no one has it all and most times
we drain our loved ones such that we end up not finding the sap we really
desired in them. At this junction only one thing stands and that is LOVE. Yea!
LOVE! That is the only light that is unquenchable in any relationship.
You see, God loved us SO he gave us His dear son. That’s
much of a sacrifice you know, but then He let it go because he loves us. We need
to begin to see people in our lives as our lovers such that even when all they
display are some set of flaws we still have the strength to love them. Love is
divine and it is what got you attracted to them. You saw something lovable in
them; say beauty, attitude, charisma, career, strength, etc. and you chose to
be with them. You’ve got to sacrifice your most desired things to be with these
people. Forget their flaws!
Love endures all things because it is divine and so you need
to begin to endure all things for these people. They are never going to be the
perfect persons you want them to be if you keep expecting them to be perfect but
they can grow beyond your expectations if you do not limit them with your own
expectations. Stop expecting them to be perfect.
Another fascinating thing love does is to forgive. Love forgives
all our inadequacies. He never sees them; he blinds himself to them such that
he only sees those attractive things in us. So, you need to learn to forgive. Forgive
everyone who has hurt you. Let go of the past and love these people as long as
they remain in your life.
Cultivate the love nature.
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